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CGM said in November 6th, 2009 at 3:32 pm

U inspire me to be a better person & mother to my autistic children. I have 2 girls (2&3 yrs old) that I have pushed with love to make them functioning children who are happy. I had been having a downspell lately & after hearing your story gave me the lift I needed. We all need to help the children ALL children. Thanks

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Dsquare said in November 12th, 2009 at 10:32 pm

In 2006 we also took in a boy who was in need, a team mate of my grandson who I raised since an infant. It turned into my worst nightmare and I secretly think of the events everyday and can’t seem to get past this. My grandson is an Eagle Scout and this almost ruined his life. He has changed since this and I don’t know how to get him back. He had a football schlorship to college and dropped out after the 1st semester. I’m hoping your story will inspire me and him! The boy we took in is now in prison and I feel so betrayed. I also fear when he gets out. I am so happy for your Michael and your family, but I also can’t stop crying for what could have been with mine. I wish you all the best and continued success for Michael and all your children. I will follow his career and hope it will give me the strength I need to get over the bitterness I feel. Good Luck to you all!

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Karen Rison said in November 15th, 2009 at 4:20 pm

This is such an inspiring story! From what I have heard and seen, our family looks forward to seeing this over the Thanksgiving break. Dsquare (one of the other posters here) just know and believe that the boy you took in was loved and raised to know better. Children will make horrible decisions (been there with one of our own) for their lives and there is little we can do but forgive and love them and encourage them to do better. Here is thinking of you this day and hope your story will be just as good as the Tuohy’s story some day!

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Elaine Young said in November 21st, 2009 at 4:56 pm

Leigh Ann,
I always knew you are a very special person. I know we lost touch a few years ago, but I want you to know how proud I am of you and your family.
You have always been in my prayers and thoughts. You helped me through a very tough time in my life and I have always been thankful for your friendship. I pray for all good things for you and hope you receive this message. All my love to you and your family.
Elaine Young

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aks said in November 22nd, 2009 at 8:10 pm

God bless you Leigh Ann! What a fantastic story.

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Nichole said in November 23rd, 2009 at 1:04 am

I watched THE BLIND SIDE and I wanted to tell you how much you and your family inspired me! I am a Die Hard Ole Miss fan and was very very fond of Michael even before I knew this story, but when I watched this movie it changed my outlook on alot of things in my life!! What you did was amazing!! As soon as THE BLIND SIDE comes out i will be the first in line to purchase it!! Thank you so much for the story!!
Hotty Toddy!
Nichole

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janhiggy said in November 23rd, 2009 at 2:54 am

Leigh Ann,

I just saw the movie tonight and what a movie it was. It brought tears to my eyes and touched my soul. You are a wonderful person and I will you and your family well.

You could have turned a blind eye, but you didn’t. Thanks for being there for that young man and having such an impact on his life.

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nina kuzina said in November 27th, 2009 at 3:28 pm

This is the most touching moving I have ever seen in my life. It is the true meaning of ‘unconditional love’. The Tuohy family is an inspiration to us all. You are about about ‘humanity’. God truly has a special place for people like you and your family…nina kuzina

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Richiey said in November 27th, 2009 at 8:13 pm

Mrs. Tuohy,

Bless your heart and your family.

I too was a child who was bounced around, an aunt and uncle stood in the gap for me and I am so grateful. Today I’m a college graduate, and home owner and a contributing member of society. As the chairwoman of my church’s youth ministry I look for ways to give back to God all that he’s given to me.

Your story has blessed my heart.

Thank you,

Richiey Hayes

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thomas said in November 28th, 2009 at 9:05 pm

I JUST WANT TO SAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, YOU ARE WONDERFULL HUMAN BEING.

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claytonautos said in November 28th, 2009 at 11:24 pm

This was such an inspiring story, I’m adopted and it just proves again it’s not what your born into but what you come out as…..Always focus on the positive negative gets you nowhere in life…..

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NateDirickson said in November 29th, 2009 at 2:05 am

I love movies. Watch most of them. We just watched “The Blind Side.” Had this been a Hollywood story it would be meaningless because the characters are so unexpected. They are beyond the people we know and … yes … the people we are … the person I am. But this isn’t a story. This is real. In this production we see what we could be. As irrational as this is, someone … some family in Memphis really is capable of this kind of love. I have now seen this movie a dozen times since I left the theater. I have to thank those that produced this and brought it to us. But most of all I am grateful to Leigh Ann and Sean for sharing their lives with us. It was an unexptected education and a truly spectacular Christmas gift. Thank you.

Hurry with the DVD. I cannot keep watching this while I am driving or waiting in lines.

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terry g said in November 29th, 2009 at 11:12 pm

I watched this movie over thanksgiving break and was blown away. I am an African-American male who works in a private school similar to the one portrayed in the movie. The Christian school I teach and coach at at times forget that it is just that, a Christian school. I wish we had people willing to step up and help out someone who is not as fortunate. I run a scholarship for minority and low income students to attend our school which is funded by my family so I know about the sacrifices the Tuohy’s made for Micheal Oher. All parties involved in this wonderful movie have touched a lot of people these past two weeks. Sean and Leigh Ann along with Collins and SJ you guys showed us what love is all about. I just like to say thank you because it opened my eyes up to some things I need to do.

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Merry12322 said in November 30th, 2009 at 3:15 am

CGM, please contact me if you need support and or help with your two autistic children. To the Tuohy Family: I think you are all amazing and defintely an inspiration, most of all Michael.

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Foster Care Support Foundation said in December 1st, 2009 at 9:07 pm

Leigh Anne, I met you in September in DC at the Angels in Adoption Awards and the offer still holds for you to come see our Foster Care center and how an entire community gives of themselves to help children like Michael, in foster care. I think you will Love it. With help from volunteers and sponsors, we serve almost 4000 foster children each year and give them free clothing, toys and safe infant equipment to make sure they have things like other children while in foster care. It’s difficult but not impossible, we rely on caring people to donate funds, items and time. It works! People really so care, they are kind, generous and loving, they just need knowledge of how to go about it. We suggest to them 3 ways they can help. Please contact me; you have my card. We need to talk. There is still lots to do to help our kids in crisis and the knowledge is coming out.YEAH!!! Check out our February benefit, we’d love for you to come. Again, Great Job!

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iamacamera said in December 4th, 2009 at 11:44 am

We took in a throw away child in 1985. It’s sad that so many children are just thrown away. There were times when I’d have killed him if I could have but perseverance paid off. He now lives in the Phoenix area and is prospering beyond my wildest imaginings with three beautiful children, living the American dream. This movie had so much meaning to us because we have been in the trenches with a child like Michael. We remarked all the way through the movie that it was so similar to our experience. I know that these situations don’t always work out like we’d like them to and my heart aches for Dsquare. But love always wins! Things have a way of working out. It may not be today or even tomorrow but they do.

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ach said in December 5th, 2009 at 11:07 pm

I thank God for this film. My husband and I were finally approved yesterday for adoption/foster-adopt in the state of Texas. Yesterday, we also were asked to consider taking 2 African-American children yesterday, and we said yes. Of course, as sad as it is, East Texas is still a racist area, and so many peole with good intentions have told us how bad this would be for us and the children and the affects this could have on our 2 biological children.
My husband and I are not stupid and realize that this won’t be easy, but I think God has placed this opportunity in our way for a reason. Never the less, we have been unsure and somewhat scared of the unknown all day.
My husband suggested we go to the movies to get away from our thoughts. Our girls (ages 10&12) had never seen a PG-13 movie before, but we had heard that Blindside was really good. Therefore, we bought our tickets (still worried about the rating). My jaw dropped when I realized the story line. It was more than an answer to prayers. It was an affirmation of our decision so clearly being told in a magnificient film. It was speaking to all of us so clearly! My girls realized (without having to get into too many details that they couldn’t even comprehend that people would think of doing) where their new siblings are coming from, and it gave us so much to talk about afterwards. I can’t say thanks enough! Thanks for your determination, your example, and the message and hope that this film brought to our family.
I know that you have already traveled the road that we are now embarking on. Although we will probably not have the next pro athlete, we will have 2 children that knows security and love. I can’t imagine how much they will bless us too. Let the adventure begin!!!
With Gratitude,
ach

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r layne said in December 6th, 2009 at 4:18 pm

Dear Mrs. and Mr. Tuohy,
Thank you for having big hearts. I have watched the movie and now I am a big fan of your son. I was not very big on football, but now, I will enjoy cheering on your son and the Ravens. I found this story uplifting. You and your family are angels.

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Lisa Martin said in December 11th, 2009 at 2:57 pm

Leigh Ann my husband and I just moved to Greeneville, Tn from South Fl. We started our ministry in S. Fl and moved it here to Greeneville. My husband is a Pastor and we have a burden for kids in foster care. My husband speaks at churches sharing God’s word about caring for the orphans. We have seven kids three adopted. The thing that hit me the most in the movie was when you where out to lunch with your rich friends and the things they said, I have had the same thing happent to me. I sure they all call themselves Christians too! I would love to somehow get together with you and your husband for dinner and we can all talk about how we as Christians can have an impact on the foster care system. There are 1,300,000 kids in foster care in the US and thousands waiting to be adopted. I hope to hear from you!
God Bless,
Lisa Martin 423-525-6702

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admin said in December 11th, 2009 at 5:15 pm

Lisa, consider this in your ministry.

All of us think about abused kids and I know kids are sometimes abused and need to be taken as a last resort.

Problem is CPS has built up an industry, funded by the federal government on a per kid basis to remove children from their homes and adopt them out. As much as $60,000 per kid is offered in good faith for every kid adopted out. this means more money for the few in the CPS that have no morals, want bigger expense accounts and more positions availiable for their friends and family.

I have written extensively about it on this website. Here is a link that better explains how this works.

http://www.oneangryman.com/ken/2008/11/connections-to-success-and-increasing-adoptions-act-of-2008-hr-6893/

Consider this in your ministry. The total federal government money provided for educating parents to keep their children in the home is $0.00.

For a link to all the posts on this subject you can click the “catagories” dropdown menu at the top right corner of the page and select “child protective services. Dozens of us are working on this problem and getting no where with the federal government.

The fact is that children are 4.5 times more likely to be abused in the care of CPS than in the care of their natural parents.

No offense to all you good foster parents out there, I commend each one of you.

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Dell Stewart said in December 14th, 2009 at 9:41 am

What an extraordinarily wonderful family!!! The success of this phenomenal thing-spontaneously bringing this unconventional stranger into your private lives to show some love and then decided to continue to love and nurture-materialized only because each family member opened their heart and supported each other!!! Mr. and Mrs. Tuohy as you know, your biological children bring tears of joy to mines and millions of eyes to see such fine young ones that possess such high morals and regard for human life. I thank you all for not giving into pure pressure. Michael Oher, this could not have happened to a more worthy person. This being said based only on the fact you have always been a naturally decent human being and you as a young child fought inwardly to hold on to it!!! If that part in the movie about how your biological mother, who is a victim of her environment, would tell you to close your eyes to protect your innocence is true, thank Jehovah God for her, because that was the foundation for your survival. Michael,remain humble and never forget all who helped you from a young child until today. Mr. & Mrs. Tuohy, I know Jehovah God looks upon you and you three children with a favorable heart.

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webmonkeydc said in December 16th, 2009 at 2:12 am

Great article! For more on how practicing what we preach can change a life, check out this post: http://richardtgarner.blogspot.com/2009/12/renewing-stars-faith.html

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Incumbent said in December 18th, 2009 at 10:19 pm

TODAY, I SAW THE MOVIE, BLIND SIDE….A VERY TOUCHING AND MOVING DRAMA. IT IS SO WONDERFUL WHAT LEIGH ANNE DID FOR AN UNFORTUNATE BLACK YOUTH. MAYBE, MORE WHITES WILL STEP FORWARD TO SHARE THEIR TIME AND RESOURCES WITH THOSE UNFORTUNATE BLACK YOUTHS. MAYBE THEY CAN HELP REVERSE THE EVILS OF SLAVERY, OPPRESION, AND DISCRIMINATION THAT THEIR FOREPARENTS PLACED ON BLACKS, INSTEAD OF ACTING AS THOUGH ITS DOESN’T EXIST. HOPEFULLY IT IS NOT TOO LATE, THE GODS OF THE MILL GRIND SLOW, BUT EXCEEDINGLY FINE. YOU SOW THE WIND, YOU SHALL REAP THE WHIRLWIND!

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The Blind Side « agenţia de vise said in December 21st, 2009 at 6:11 pm

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tconley76 said in December 21st, 2009 at 7:49 pm

Dear Mrs. Tuohy:
My name is Timothy Conley and I am a graduate student at the USC School of Social Work and the USC Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism pursuing a double master’s degree. I had the pleasure now that the semester has ended here to watch the movie “The Blindside” this past weekend. I just wanted to say thank you for being who you are and saving Michael’s life. This movie in some ways is very close to home for me.
I am an ex “left-tackle” (football player), I played a few years professionally and at the collegiate level in several places. Without the unconditional support and love of a great mother like yourself, I would have never had the opportunity to continue on as an athlete, coach, teacher, and with my current educational & professional goals.

Sincerely,
Timothy Lee Conley
Front Office Coordinator
USC Office of Religious Life
USC MCM 2010 – MSW 2012

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Sherrey Meyer said in December 26th, 2009 at 1:46 am

Leigh Ann, Sean, Collins and SJ, and Michael, you are a stand-out family! Growing up in Nashville until age 35, I know the great divide between African Americans and the white community. What all of you did was courageous, brave and heartwarming — not to mention Christian! As I watched the movie today with my husband, I couldn’t help but reflect on what grace and power there is in sharing the unconditional love of our Heavenly Father. You have done this with your three children, with each other, and the Memphis community. I’m a pretty die hard Peyton Manning fan, but you now I think I’m going to be watching some Ravens games and cheering on Michael!

Sherrey Meyer, a mom, grandma and great-grandma
Portland, OR

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mamaruth said in December 27th, 2009 at 1:45 am

I don’t think I have ever been so moved by a film before. I have been a caregiver for 20 years now, several situations and conditions. The latest is taking in my 7 year old granddaughter who has Asperger’s because she and her mother can’t bond. I cried, laughed, and cried some more. When I’ve been asked why I do it, my reply is always, “It’s doing what a Christian should do.” I don’t understand how Christians can NOT do something.

I love Kathy Bates, but I’m not sure about her being cast in this role. I kept waiting for her to say, “Fooseball is the debil’s game.”

So what do you think Michael will do to give back?

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hilbilynohio said in January 17th, 2010 at 12:11 pm

I went to watch the movie Blindside. Wonderful movie. What a wonderful family, Leigh Ann, Sean and both children. For people with money, you did a wonderful thing, taking in Michael and eventually adopting him. Not very often do you hear of such a family, especially with such different backgrounds as your family and Michaels. Just want to say what a wonderful family I think you are. You restore my faith in the good people of this country, that you have the means to do good and you did.

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Australians said in February 27th, 2010 at 11:19 pm

Australians are just seeing the movie and we LOVE it ! Our college (university) scholarships don’t work like in the USA, but we are all blown away by this fabulous warm, compassionate, open-to-learning, family with such Big Hearts. Truly a warm, funny and at times tearful movie-experince. I am one of the lucky ones to have had a loving childhood, good education, opportunities etc., and it was a great reminder to me how far behind the starting line of life, so many have to begin from ! There are so many barriers and we are so quick to condemn. Mrs Tuohy and family, thanks so much for your inspiration in Australia too! Please write. God bless all who try to help chi;ldren of any background achieve their God-given potential in life, relationships, career, sport, community life, etc.. Love from Don & Ann Brown (now a teeny bit over 50 with 2 girls beginning careers in public health.) andbrown@three.com.au

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corkey12 said in March 28th, 2010 at 10:23 pm

I am a grandmother with custody of my two grandsons. They have been through a lot since they were born. The younger one spent almost 2 years in a hospital just after being born. We watched The Blind Side this past weekend. The movie made them feel good. They had a chance to really see that all things are possible. They don’t feel so ashamed about their situation anymore. I am glad for such a story. I hope adults and children gain some hope from it, and to realize there are really nice people in this world.

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whd53 said in March 30th, 2010 at 10:29 pm

There is a special place in Heaven for the Tuohy family. What an inspirational family you all are. The world needs more loving and caring people like you.

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Bernadette said in May 16th, 2010 at 11:00 am

Thank You for helping him. There are more just like him out there.

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purplegirll15 said in May 16th, 2010 at 8:57 pm

I seen the movie and I loved it. You are a INSPERATION to women all around the world. My GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Tell your son, Micheal that the Green Bay Packers are ready for him and the Ravens. They are not many people in this world who are loving an caring as you. Stay as sweet as you are.

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Shanita said in May 24th, 2010 at 10:27 pm

Dearest Leigh Anne. I’m a white South African living in Cape Town. I have just seen ‘The Blind Side’ and let me tell you, you are my personal heroine. You and your family (all 5, of course,) are absolutely a beacon of hope and light in this dark world. In my life I have a family… but then, in a way I don’t. In the past I have lost faith in people as a whole. Your family certainly shows me that there ARE wonderful, loving people in this world who very much make it a better world to live in. I wish you and all your family all the best for the future. You certainly deserve it. With the warmest love and greetings.

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