False claims hurt true victims of violence.
Under the Violence Against Women Act, false allegations have reached epidemic levels:

The VAWA allows only for the petitioner to say the word “scared” and a restraining order will be issued without due process or the person the allegations being made on even being present or made known of the court proceeding. This effectivley can take a father out of his home and away from his kids. Restraining orders generally last for one year and generally take one year to fight. Men who have committed no crime or even charged with any crimes are being denied a relationship with their kids. VAWA restraining orders have become the atomic bomb for trial lawyers in custody, divorce and visitation cases.
- According to the RADAR Report, “Without Restraint: The Use and Abuse of Domestic Restraining Orders,” at least one million restraining orders are issued each year in which no violence is even alleged.
- A recent analysis found 81% of temporary restraining orders in West Virginia are false or unnecessary.
- In San Diego, prosecuting attorney Casey Gwinn admits, “I would say it’s in the thousands of people who take the witness stand and somewhat modify the truth.”
RADAR recently released a White Paper that analyzes the problem of false allegations: http://www.mediarad ar.org/docs/ RADARwhitepaper- False-Allegation s.pdf. The White Paper presents 10 needed changes to federal and state domestic violence laws to correct this insidious problem:
- The definition of domestic violence should be consistent with statutory definitions of physical assault.
- Harassment and stalking should be objectively defined in terms of specific acts by the alleged offender, not the perceptions or feelings of the alleged victim.
- Partner abuse that does not fall within the above-described definition of domestic violence, harassment, or stalking should be addressed by counseling, treatment, and mediation, not by the law enforcement or criminal justice systems.
- In order to obtain a restraining order, petitioners must provide hard evidence of physical assault, harassment, or stalking.
- Restraining order petitioners may not make a petition for child custody while a temporary restraining order is in effect.
- Because restraining orders can affect constitutionally protected parental rights, judges should use the evidentiary standard of “clear and convincing evidence.”
- Restraining orders should be issued during ex parte hearings only when objective evidence is presented that the violence, harassment, or stalking represents an immediate credible threat to the petitioner’s physical safety.
- States should enact laws that penalize the filing of false complaints or engaging in perjury. These laws should pertain to the actions of plaintiffs, attorneys, domestic violence shelters, and other organizations that engage in such activities.
- Prosecutors and judges should be encouraged to vigorously pursue such violations.
- Government-funded legal services must be made equally available to both the petitioner/plaintiff and respondent/defendan t.
We encourage persons to review these recommendations and share them with your state and federal lawmakers to make needed reforms. We cannot allow the epidemic of false allegations of domestic violence to continue.
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I agree with you 100% but with the suggestion you change ‘father’ to parent,
As I am woman/mom who fell victim to a man using a false claim to separated me from our sons and our home as part of his plan to divorce and crucify me.
The systen then failed me and our sons in the worst way any man would report.
I never went home and our sons have been severely damaged by his continual hateful actions towards me. All this on his claim was I threw a cordless phone at him, BTW.
I feel for you but how often do women suffer from this sexist family law system ? Not too often. I have been falsely accused of child abuse too but I was found to be innocent. Women should advocate for gender equality in family law but they won’t because its popular to hate men and get revenge against them.
My sons wife (separated for about 2 years) has taken a restraining order out using false allegations, he had his boys every weekend fri to sunday late and on tue and thurs. In addition to not allowing him to see his kids she also is not letting us the grandparents see them. she started sleeping with his cousin and I guess she decides he does not need to see his kids, befor ehe had even been served he went went to there tee ball game the oldest (6) ran to his dad to hug him and his mom litearally jerked him away asking my son havent you been served yet? I know these boys and I know how much he loves and cares for them. He has always been here for them not dating etc, while she is going out all the time with different guys and leaving them whereever she can. What can my son do to fight this restraining order for the kids she can keep it on herself because he does not want anything else to do with her. I really believe if the kids could talk to a judge that they would tell them they want to be with there dad. Anybody out there have any ideas please let us know. Though I am a woman I agree that men are geting the shaft with a lot of women and there hatred towards men.
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